Ways To Remember Lost Loved Ones On Your Wedding Day

When planning your big day it can be emotional when you think of the ones that won’t be there in person to celebrate with you. When it comes to the passing of loved ones you hold dear to your heart, weddings seem to bring all those feelings back because it’s such a milestone in your life. I wanted to share with you some thoughtful ways you can have those you have lost close to you and honor them in a special way. This will help you feel their presence and memory there with you in your biggest moments.

A Single Rose

On my wedding day, my mother and my MIL both carried a single rose down the aisle to represent my grandmother (my mother's mother) and my husband's grandfather (his mother's father) who were no longer with us. It was something that really meant a lot to us and our moms and we keep those roses in a special vase in our china cabinet in our home now as a reminder that they are always with us in our hearts.

Memorial Table

This is a common and thoughtful way to honor your loved ones at your wedding. Place your favorite photos of those who have passed-on on a table over near your guestbook, welcome sign or card box. Somewhere near the entrance where guests will be passing through on their way to your ceremony or reception. It’s a great place for guests to stop and take a moment to look over the photos and memories.

Light A Candle

Light a special designated candle in remembrance of them your loved ones. You can do something as simple as just a candle in a special place at your wedding or, add it to the idea above and place a picture or special item that reminds you of them next to it.

Save Their Seat

Place a flower, bouquet, photo or special item on a chair saved just for them at the ceremony. This is a great way for you as the couple to remember their importance in your life but also let’s your friends and family know how truly special they are to you as well.

A Locket

Tie a locket or photo to your Bridal Bouquet, Corsage, or Boutonniere. Provide these sentimental photos or items to your florist to have them be worked into your personal floral items on your wedding day. That way you will carry them with you as you make your way down the aisle.

Play their favorite song

Do a song dedication in remembrance of your loved one who has passed away. You can simply have your band or DJ play a long that is special to you and that person, just mixed into the night with no announcement to keep it private and special for just you. Or, have an announcement made that your are sharing their favorite song as a dedication to that person so that everyone has a chance to take a moment and remember them with you.

A Special Treat

Serve a special food or drink in their honor. Did they have a favorite food or were they known to enjoy a specific cocktail? Name that item after them. You can even add a cute sign to your bar or food display that explains the significance of the food or drink and who they represent.

Pro Tip: Once you decide how you will incorporate your loved one, let your photographer and videographer know what you have planned so they can make sure to properly capture that memory for you on your wedding day.

These are all great ways to help honor and share in your day with those who have passed on. It’s hard to carry on with special moments in our lives without those we have lost but, having their memory with you on your big day can help fill your heart and remind you of their presence in your life. <3

Happy Planning,

Naticia